Topic: Tubal Ligation
Yes, you are absolutely right about men having a vasectomy. For men it is a very simple procedure. Not even considered surgery by many doctors. A couple sore days and taking extra percautions for about 6 months to a year and that's about it. For a woman it is real surgery, evn if it is done through a laproscope.
But here is the kicker... If you (woman) don't want more children, him getting snipped won't help you much if you two should ever break up (never say never). When my ex and I were discussing sterilization, our marriage was absolutely rock solid into our 5th year.
My ex went on to have another child after we broke up many many years ago. His daughter is a sweet girl and he now has grandchildren. I don't. No regrets just saying. I am sure he is grateful now that I got snipped and not him.
Last edited by inuit; 05-19-2010 at 06:36 AM..
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